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No Candy With Those School Valentines This Year

The Geneva School District asks that no candy or edible items be attached to valentines.

 

I remember one of my more ambitious Valentine's Day efforts at Harrison Street School in the early '60s.

I taped heart-shaped lolly pops to paper doilies and handed them out in those shoe boxes we used for the occasion back then. As I recall, the lollypops got rave reviews from classmates and a thumbs up from the teacher for originality. Candy was considered good in those days.

Flash forward a half century and, surprise! Things have changed. Probably for the best.

Geneva School District 304 is reminding parents and students this week that no candy should be attached to valentines this year.

"Valentines will be exchanged on Thursday, Feb. 14, 2013, in your child’s classroom," the district said in a 304 Connects e-mail message.

"In accordance with our District Wellness Policy 8510 that was adopted last school year, we ask that no candy or other edible items be attached to the valentines."

I imagine that the practice still varies a bit from school to school or classroom to classroom, but for the most part, it sounds like Valentine's Day parties are on the out, along with the candy. Parents and teachers, feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.

Cake and treats are out for birthday parties. Ditto for Halloween treats.

That's a good thing, probably due mostly to the awareness and concern about allergies these days. It's hard to argue with any policy that promotes health and safety.

It's also difficult not to see a little bit of irony in this particular sign of the times.

When candy was allowed, childhood obesity really wasn't much of an issue. Today, obesity is serious business, for children and adults. And if you have any doubts about that, well, just ask Chris Christie.

What do you think? Should candy be allowed with valentines at school? Should an exchange be OK if the candy is taken home for parent inspection? Leave a note in the comments section and take our Patch poll.

Here are some comments from Geneva Patch's Facebook page:

  • I think it's great to be healthy but on special occasions it should be okay to send a little valentine treat. Let them take it home and the parents can make those decisions for their children.
  • We survived. Let the kids be kids!
  • I think kids need to be kids and parents should be monitoring the treats- not the schools. Sad that kids can't give a sweet treat with their valentines.
  • How is this different from the other parties they have? Yes, they are provided with healthy choices but I've seen plenty of candy at those parties. It would have been nice for the district to send out the reminder about the policy earlier than today. New families, such as my own, had no idea and were already prepared. Off to the store to buy new Valentines. Yay!
  • As a parent I'm glad we do Valentines but not candy. It's one less thing to buy and we don't need the candy, it's a waste.
  • What is the impetus for this? There is nothing wrong with treats if done in moderation. I can see it if it is sending a message about the ill-effects of childhood obesity in this country. However, if it's to soothe lil' Johnny's feelings b/c he didn't get a valentine from a girl he likes in class then that sends a very bad message and kids need to learn things will often not go as planned in life.
  • As a room parent for these events, candidly I'm not a fan. However, wholeheartedly understand.
  • The school officials sure know how to suck the fun out of the holiday. Ridiculous.
  • Do You Think Students Should Be Allowed to Give Candy With Valentines?

    (Voting has been closed for this question)
    • Yes
        8 (80%)
    • No!
        2 (20%)
    Total votes: 10
  • Your vote will only count once. This is not a scientific poll. View Results Vote!
About this column: Rick Nagel is editor of Geneva Patch. Related Topics: Candy at School, Geneva School District 304, and Valentines at School

Rudy

12:32 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

What are we Russia now !! If you don't want little johnny to have candy put a note on his shirt saying don't feed me! Everyone suffers becuse of the few! Everything in moderation and then send it home for the parents to decide. If you keep candy from the kids it just makes it seem more like a reward and thatstarts the disfunctional food reward cycle. IMHO

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btown95

1:00 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Kids eat enough sugar and unhealthy food. If the parents really want them to have it then they can give it to them at home. If the schools are trying to teach kids to be healthy then it sends a mixed message when they are allowed to have all kinds of unhealthy foods at parties and at snack time. I don't think any kids are really going to suffer if they don't get candy with their valentines.

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CardsFan

11:25 pm on Monday, February 11, 2013

Maybe if parents started teaching their kids self control, and teachers were allowed to enforce classroom rules without crazy parents rushing in to object to Johnny being forced to follow the same group rules as everyone else this wouldn't be necessary?

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Mary Sunshine

2:46 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

It's true that many kids eat too much junk but to enforce such a strict policy is reactionary. The reality is that everyone should make healthy choices most of the time so that on special occasions, like Valentine's Day, we can celebrate together while enjoying a sweet treat. One cookie or lollipop does not an unhealthy child make. It seems to me that a teachable moment occurs when discussing food for a school party - include some healthy food and some treats and remind kids that everything in moderation IS in fact healthy. I teach in Vancouver, BC and we are trying to encourage healthier eating but certainly celebrate Hallowe'en, Valentine's Day and other holidays with a sweet treat. If you restrict too much, it tends to backfire!

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Cindy Altmayer

6:52 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Its also about food allergies folks. My child is old enough now to know not to ingest his known allegies, check labels etc... Little ones cant. Has anyone ever seen a child in anaphylaxis? If you had, you would breath easier with this new trend. Change does not happen to make your life more difficult. Relax, adapt, no one will be harmed...

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Rudy

7:36 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Sorry your child has allergies so now everyone must live by your child’s diet??? With that philosophy in mind if I get 1 weed in my garden I should just convert my entire garden to all weeds because it’s easier? Take responsibility for your child if they can't be exposed to certain things keep them home on treat day! If your child has asthma should we cancel physical exertion for everyone or just your child? I don't want to sound mean but shouldn't the majority rule?

Cindy Altmayer

10:36 am on Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Well you do sound mean and that weed will not potentially kill your child...your analogy sucks... Perhaps a course on empathy would do you well, Rudy.

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Laura Shumow

10:50 am on Thursday, February 14, 2013

I grew up in Geneva and now work as the Director of Scientific and Regulatory Affairs for the National Confectioners Association, the trade association that represents the candy industry. Candy is just a little treat and the reality is that kids are generally not eating too much candy - on average children consume about 50 calories of candy per day (it's less than 3% of their total diet). Candy adds to the fun of holidays and celebrations. Restrictions and bans like this don't necessarily encourage healthy eating or have any impact on obesity rates and may actually backfire. Research shows that kids are more inclined to eat a much higher quantity of treats and not learn to self-moderate when their treats are overly-restricted. Communities should reinforce healthy eating generally, but also that the role of candy in life is as a treat that belongs as a part of special occasions, rather than banning it outright. Regarding allergens, this could be managed by sending a communication home to the parents not to distribute candy with nuts in it (or whatever the allergen of concern is) for that particularly class, rather than banning all candy treats.

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btown95

3:08 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Wow!!! what a very unbiased view coming from someone who represents the National Confectioners Association...hope you pick up on the sarcasm

Jim Nelson

3:12 pm on Thursday, February 14, 2013

Rick...no candy attached to your Valentine...bite your sucker, sir. I can't even begin to tell how much attaching just the right candy heart to Chris Leigh Pederson's carefully chosen tear off valentine meant to me in 3rd grade. To express my heart without attracting dreaded Girl Germs was incredibly important, and hygienic as well. No candy...? Humbug, sir - Humbug!

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