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The Princeton Review research is silly, but the Wheaton College response is worse.
It’s a rare feat for one of our illustrious Patchland institutions to come out on top of a national ranking. Actually, in this case, it’s not so rare. This sanctum of higher learning was No. 1 in 2009 and it generally finishes in the top 10!
Yes! Once again, the Princeton Review named Wheaton College the country's least tolerant university toward gay and lesbian students. Why do I suddenly feel like issuing a Colbert-esque “We’re No. 1”?
Of course, we should try to keep this semi-rare honor in perspective. After all, the award was issued by a "Review" from an utterly mediocre educational institution. Name one NBA player that ever graduated from Princeton! The only time I ever pick up their Review is when I want to see how fast I can fall asleep.
This “poll” ain’t exactly scientific, either. In the 80-question survey sent out to 122,000 college students, the single query used to determine gay tolerance was, “Do you agree or disagree that students, faculty, and administrators treat all persons equally regardless of their sexual orientation and gender identity/expression?”
Most college students don’t have the attention span to make it through that sentence, and if they did, don’t you think it’s a wee bit subjective? You’d think they’d have first asked the responder if he or she knows even one gay student. Ah, well! What do you expect from a bunch of confused Ivy Leaguers who settled for Princeton because they couldn’t get into Yale?
But instead of letting this absurdity go, as they should have, Wheaton College couldn’t resist issuing a response.
“Our goal is to follow God’s truth, including what the Bible says about sexual ethics,” they said in a statement, “While some may interpret this stance as hostility to the LGBTQ community, our aim is to stand respectfully and graciously for biblical truth.”
So now, I get to respond! Because anytime anyone quotes “biblical truth” it’s almost always a case of selective reading, which tends to make me cranky.
Let’s start with Leviticus 19:19, which issues a clear caveat against the use of mixed fibers, like polyester. Were this true, given their always-interesting fashion choices, our friends in Burr Ridge would be condemned to that pearly gates "down" escalator.
I have to say I’m looking forward to that new daily Wheaton College clothing tag check. “A cashmere sweater and linen slacks!? You get yourself home right now and change, young lady!”
Then we have Leviticus 20:19: “For every one that curseth his father or his mother shall be surely put to death.”
So it’s capital punishment for anyone that hurls the “F” word at their parents? ... Can I plead insanity?
I have to admit I understand the logic behind Leviticus 15:19-20. To paraphrase, you can’t touch a woman, or anything she’s touched, during “that time of the month.” Any semi-intelligent male can attest to the dangers of getting within 3 feet of their spouse during that time, so most husbands follow this rule out of self defense. I usually just hide in the crawl space.
But taken to its logical extreme, I can’t wait to see how Wheaton College checks up on this one! That oughtta make the news.
I’m all for Leviticus 11:22, because I’m not so sure I could eat a locust without gagging anyway.
But my all-time favorite has to be Deuteronomy 25:11-12, which decisively declares, if a wife defends her husband by grabbing his attacker’s testicles, “Then thou shalt cut off her hand … ” (Kicking is OK!)
Personally, I think that’s a bit extreme, because any woman willing to protect me in that specific manner is certainly worth having around—especially if she’s got a good grip.
Please don’t even try that lame “there goes that crazy Leviticus” excuse on me again, because that’s the same section that outlaws homosexuality.
Now that we’ve taken care of all that, and considering the Wheaton College statement, there’s still the question of why any self-respecting gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans-gendered or sexuality questioning student would want to attend Wheaton College in the first place. Isn’t that a lot like Casey Anthony crashing a PTA meeting?
You know me! I follow in the footsteps of that great thinker, Bill Engval, whose compelling philosophy goes something like this: “If it wasn’t for the sex, I could be gay. Then you're just hangin’ out with your buddies.”
I’ve said it before! I don’t want to know what goes on in your bedroom because my own terrifies me enough as it is. I’ve got much bigger things to worry about than who’s doing what to whom. Go ahead and marry your Dodge Charger if that’s your thing—just promise me you'll keep the garage door shut.
But talk about rushing in where angels fear to tread! We all know that many self-prescribed religious folk can be notoriously intolerant.
The irony is, I wasn’t going to put too much stock in a silly survey a bunch of Princeton nerds came up with until Wheaton College had to go ahead and prove them right! So let’s drop the anti-gay pretense, because if your “aim” truly is to “stand respectfully and graciously for biblical truth,” then it’s an all-or-nothing proposition.
You want the real truth? Picking only those prohibitions that fit your world view is even worse than wearing polyester.
Phil Krahenbuhl
7:14 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Jeff- I think you got this one wrong. The biblical truth is that homo sexuality is a sin. And everybody has sin, that is in the Bible too. So Wheaton college is not judging homosexuals, they are just standing by what the Bible calls sin. And it is not a one liner like all these quotes you have used from Leviticus. Try looking into some new Testament verses that stand by the Old Testament law. I hope you can find the truth in that. Thanks.
Jeff Ward
7:53 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Phil,
You're picking and choosing! There are many more bible bans I didn't have the space to cover. For example, I hope you don't shave! The bible calls that sin too!
Jeff
Julia C
10:43 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
You also have to look at the historical content for those prohibitions. Jewish law prohibited homosexuality because they were a small, migrant, vulnerable tribe that was legitimately concerned about losing their population. There was also a story in which a man ejaculated on the ground and was struck dead by God for wasting Jewish seed. The ban on homosexuality came from that same thinking. The word "abomination" which gets thrown around so carelessly when talking about homosexuality and the Bible actually comes from a Hebrew word meaning "against Jewish law." The New Testament stands by that law because Jesus was a Jew, and therefore still lived by the values of Jewish law. If you really get into the Old Testament, though, get a feel for the inclusivity - or lack thereof - of your own religion's roots. The Hebrew God was really just that - a god for the Hebrews. They are his chosen people. Their seed is precious to him. Your name is Swiss, so I'm pretty sure God couldn't care less where your genes go.
David Shimberg
1:36 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Jeff
You got it 100% correct! Well, except for the Princeton NBA reference, in that case Bill Bradley thanks you for not pulling him into this mess.
goddess
10:14 am on Monday, August 22, 2011
Phil, you don't eat shell fish do you?
bill ward
7:35 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Former NJ Senator Bill Bradley was an All-American at Princeton and a star NBA player for the New York Knicks. Your research appears as scientific as the poll.
Jeff Ward
7:52 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Bill,
(I love your last name!) Remember, I said name one NBA players - I didn't say there wasn't one!
The real irony is, apparently the Princeton Review has nothing to do with Princeton!
Jeff
Merikay Derer
8:01 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Enjoy your comments and the titles are stunning.
alxyz
8:02 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
The iPhone app Bible Thumper has hundreds of biblical admonishments that Wheaton College Christians conveniently ignore.
Dan
8:07 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
For a minute there I thought I must be reading the Elmhurst Press and thier columnist that regularly bashes Christians.
Jeff Ward
8:16 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Dan,
How is this bashing Christians? I'm only helping them live up the ideals to which they say they espouse.
Or maybe it's bashing disingenuous Christians who selectively use the Bible to foster their stilted agenda.
Jeff
Ray
8:11 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Isn't this the same college that banned the playing of Billy Joel's "Only the Good Die Young" anywhere on campus, back when it was on the charts?
Debbie Simler-Goff
8:18 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
But, if you truly know the Bible and intent of the scriptures you would understand that the Levitical laws were under the old covenant before Christ came.
The new covenant (new testament) with it's 'love your neighbor as your self' among other things is what governs our day-to-day lives today.
I for one am thankful that Wheaton College has taken a stand for Biblical truths.
I find it interesting that there is such discussion and fingerpointing at what is in the Bible by those who don't believe it's precious promises yet we don't see the same conversations about the Koran or other religious books that other faiths follow.
I am not a scholar, but in all fairness Jeff, to selectively pull out certain scriptures and use them to beat up Christianity does not offer the chance for a healthy conversation which is what Patch is all about.
We can earnestly disagree on the choice for the Bible to be the authority in our lives... and I will respect your choice.
But please respect mine, and don't publicly malign my chosen holy book.
Ray
9:15 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
To selectively pull out certain scriptures and use them to beat up (insert any select group of people here) isn't right either, and that's what Jeff was pointing out..
(I'm picturing the "Life of Brian" stoning scene....don't say "Jehova", Jeff!)
goddess
10:20 am on Monday, August 22, 2011
I don't think he's maligning your holy book. He's mocking those who pick and choose what parts of the book they will follow. Have a little more faith in your faith.
Jeff Ward
8:25 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Dear Debbie,
I'm not maligning the book, I'm maligning those Christians who pick and choose from that book. There's some pretty good stuff in the Bible.
That said, I'm curious how you've come to know the "true intent" of the Bible? Isn't that the sin of pride? And, by your own theory, since there's nothing in the New Testament that specifically forbids homosexuality, then Wheaton College really is off the mark aren't they!
Jeff
Adam Krueger
8:32 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
To single out Wheaton's stance on LGBT (Q?) as a means of trying to tear down Christians is, at best, a straw man argument. For one, if you think the Bible is all about what "thou shalt" and "thou shalt not" do, you've either a) never read the Bible or b) you've missed the point completely.
In their defense, at least someone (Wheaton College collectively here) is standing up for SOMETHING. We live in a world where if someone has opinion that is counter-cultural, they are someone how "weird" or a fundamentalist. That's ridiculous, we all come from different backgrounds and beliefs and some are going be on one side of issue x and others are going to be on the other side. Why does one side have to be right and the other side gets bashed for their opinion?
Jeff Ward
8:43 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
BTW, I didn't know what the Q stood for either until I looked it up. It stands for "questioning."
Jeff Ward
8:47 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Adam,
There's no bashing! Once again, if you are going to cite one Biblical "truth," then don't we have to follow all of them? We're not talking about a biblical buffet here.
And if we question even one "Biblical truth" then don't we have to question all of them? And if we start questioning, then aren't we saying the Bible is open to interpretation? You can't have your cake and eat it too.
And what exactly is "counter-cultural?" There was a time the Irish were considered the lowest form of life and being Irish was as bad as being gay. So what you're saying is, when the Bible supports my prejudices, that's OK, but I'll just ignore the caveat against against eating shellfish.
It's hard being a Christian. Too many folks - like Wheaton College - try to make it easy and I'm going to call them on it!
Jeff
Debbie Simler-Goff
2:02 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Very well said Adam. You explained clearly how I feel. Thanks so much for taking the time to contribute to this conversation. I really do believe we need both sides of an issue presented in order to have a good conversation.
goddess
10:25 am on Monday, August 22, 2011
If you saw what LGBTQ youth go through you wouldn't call any of these comments bashing.
Debbie Simler-Goff
8:38 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Actually Jeff there are scriptures in the new testament that speak against homosexuality: I Corinthians 6:8-10 is one of them:
"Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,
10Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God."
And no, as I said, I am not a scholar, but having studied the Bible and lived by it's principals all of my adult life, and having attended church twice weekly for the last 30+ years and listened to teachings from pastors and teachers, my understanding of the Bible's intent is just what Wheaton College so graciously said in their statement:
“Our goal is to follow God’s truth, including what the Bible says about sexual ethics,” they said in a statement, “While some may interpret this stance as hostility to the LGBTQ community, our aim is to stand respectfully and graciously for biblical truth.”
I really don't want to argue Jeff. I respect your opinion and support your right to disagree with my views. I merely wanted to add to the conversation and point out that not everyone feels the way you do.
Jeff Ward
8:47 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Debbie,
My interpretation of Corinthians would be far different from yours.
And trust me! I understand that there are plenty of folks who don't think the way I do. I'm not necessarily asking them to change their minds. I'm simply challenging them to be consistent.
I write 5 columns a week and if I had to simply their theme down to one word it would be "consistency."
If someone said to me, "Jeff! I do follow all the biblical bans," given that level of consistency, it would be impossible to argue with them.
Jeff
Julia C
10:50 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
By the same token, if we're following the New Testament's word, Wheaton College still shouldn't be hostile toward the LGBTQ community. Jesus was nothing if not accepting of those on the fringes of society. I will never understand those Christians (and it's certainly not all Christians) who refuse to associate with LGBTQ people. Did they miss the part where Jesus hung out with prostitutes?
Rick
9:18 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Julia C is the only one on this board who gets it. If Jesus was anything, he was a lover and defender of all-especially those being persecuted. Funny, I don't recall in all my Sunday School classes, Jesus getting upset about homosexuals (like he did with "moneyhandlers"). Maybe that is why I am a former Lutheran now atheist; too many Christians have taken the Christ out of Christianity.
goddess
10:47 am on Monday, August 22, 2011
Which part is against homosexuality? Effeminate? Abusers of themselves with mankind? Because honestly, it looks like lesbians get a total pass. Good for them. And drunkards? The poor souls who are addicted to alcohol are damned as well? Thieves? Yikes. That's going to bring down more people by surprise than anyone guesses.
Adam Krueger
8:54 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
I see you removed my comment? Nice, way to foster "discussion".
Jeff Ward
9:00 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Adam,
I have no power to remove comments. And the Patch editors always provide an explanation when they do delete something.
Either you encountered a computer glitch - which occasionally occurs - or you accidentally deleted your own comment. All readers have the power to remove their own responses only.
Simply re-post the comment and you'll be fine.
Jeff
William Vollrath
9:13 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Jeff, Another "politically correct," slanted article from your unseasoned pen... It's time for you to retire from Patch.
Rob Brundige
9:24 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
I always wondered how people use the bible to say homosexuality is a sin; but after watching "Fish out of Water" it was explained clearly to me. This little gem of a movie explains how the Bible has been misquoted and misinterpreted regarding same sex relationships. Thanks for this story Jeff!
William Vollrath
9:27 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
I.e. Who is more intolerant, Jeff Ward or Wheaton College? I don't embrace much of Wheaton's philosophy but those who do have a right to hold it as long as they don't break civil rights laws.
Julia C
10:56 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
You have the legal right, sure, but he has the right to call out hypocrisy when he sees it. That's what the press is for: to call out wrongs the law hasn't righted.
John
9:34 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
William
While I do not choose to take a side on this discussion it is clear Jeff was writing an "opinion piece" which is by definition "slanted" towards his opinion. I personally am glad someone is willing to raise these issues and have found Jeff's rebuttals to be polite and well reasoned (whether or not correct) which is more than I can say for your comment.
Jeff Ward
9:38 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
John,
If it wouldn't open another whole can of worms, I'd ask you to marry me!
Jeff
William Vollrath
9:42 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
I wrote an "opinion piece" also, but mine is not politically correct...
Nick Beam
9:46 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Jeff-
It seems you wrote this article just to rile up Christians. While I agree with you that people pick and choose what they want to believe from the Bible (how about Matthew 19:24 where it says rich people go to hell? Yet we all still chase money), the fact that Wheaton College takes this stand shouldn't be a surprise.
Jeff Ward
9:58 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Nick,
It's not a surprise at all. But you bring up a really good point. If you take the "rich man" parable literally, your conclusion is correct. But I interpret it differently.
As a columnist, I've spoken with quite a few rich politicians and what they typically have in common is a belief that whatever they've been thinking for the last 5 minutes is the truth.
Wealthy folks tend to surround themselves with yes men and that money tends to shield them from learning experiences. Thus, what I think the Bible is trying to say is that wealth can be a major impediment on the path to enlightenment.
My definition of "heaven" or "the kingdom of God" is a connectedness to all things. So the Bible is simply saying that money can separate you from that connectedness
This is what I'm trying to accomplish through this column. Sure, I'm having some fun with Christians, but, in the end, I want them to see that the Bible is open to interpretation!
Jeff
Nick Beam
1:40 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Fair enough
Laura Nelson
10:06 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Loved your take on this, Jeff!
Jeff Ward
10:15 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Laura,
I'd ask you to marry me too, but then I'd have to do a column on bigamy!
Jeff
John
10:30 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Jeff, your marriage proposal made me laugh. Interestingly enough, I am a married Christian myself but I am troubled by many Christians convenient slip of the mind when it comes to John 8:7. In fact, citing this reference would make your argument vis-a-vis Wheaton College much more forceful.
Instead of arguing about the relative "truths"of the bible - you can point out that whether or not you believe in the "truths", you must acknowledge that Jesus CLEARLY stated that it is not our place to judge since we are all sinners. Therefore anyone who disagrees to the question... “Do you agree or disagree that students, faculty, and administrators treat all persons equally regardless of their sexual orientation and gender identity/expression?” needs to assess whether they are in fact judging that person and therefore breaking one of the truths.
In my humble opinion. Given this passage - the truths of the bible apply to each Christian as individuals and the minute we start acting towards others in the material world we run the risk of being inconsistent and worse yet out of line with Jesus's teachings.
goddess
10:53 am on Monday, August 22, 2011
What you said.
Jeff Ward
10:35 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
John,
True! But one step at a time! If I can get 'em to see beyond the literal word, (which I sadly doubt) then it becomes much harder for them to judge.
And your "rich man" interpretation works just fine in my book. The key thing is, neither one of us takes it literally, i.e. rich men don't automatically get bounced from the pearly gates!
Jeff
William Vollrath
10:48 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Looks like Jeff swings both ways when it comes to "judging" others. There is a reason you aren't reading his aggressive, liberal, politically correct calls for regulation of backyard, firepit marshmellow roasts or this ridicule piece of Wheaton College in the Chicago Tribune or even DG Reporter. The established press usually knows the difference between intelligent analysis and personal rants. The Patch might be wise to try harder to do the same.
William Regnery
11:30 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Mr. Vollrath,
Your criticisms feel petty and unnecessarily personal. Using terms such as "liberal" or "politically correct" as a means of derision say more (to me at least) about your political agenda then your grasp of the concepts. It has been my experience that the lack of intelligent analysis you suggest seems more descriptive of some of the narrow-minded, uniformed, and misanthropic comments that are posted then it is accurate in describing Jeff Ward’s opinion pieces (except the fire pits ban – really?:))
Laraine
10:52 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Great article, Jeff. While I have no argument with those that follow the scriptures and get enjoyment out of them, I do have a rather large, heated argument with those that use those scriptures as a means to justify their opinions - and sometimes hatred - to anyone that is "different" from them. I don't think Jesus would be too keen on a certain group of people being ostrasized and condemned (not literally, I hope) because they had different life views. At one time, if you are even vaguely familiar with the bible, Jesus was judged and condemned for being one of those "different" individuals. Makes you think, doesn't it? The world would be such a better place if everyone - Christians and non-Christians alike - lived by the golden rules: Love thy neighbor as thyself and Do Unto Others as you would like done to you. Forget about memorizing all those scripture chapters, lines and verses.
Here's an idea for a future article/opinion page: What does organized religion bring to the world? In my opinion, it brings divisiveness, violence, and in extreme cases, war. Peace and love....peace and love. Take care.
Adam Krueger
10:54 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Laura, you're hanging out with some odd "Christians" if they refuse to associate with people from the LGBT community...i would question whether they are really Christians or not. Jesus' message was love - not necessarily acceptance - but definitely love, of all people - regardless of their sins. Afterall, we're all sinners and yet God still loves us.
Adam Krueger
10:55 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
oops, sorry, meant Laraine, sorry!
William Vollrath
11:02 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Right or wrong, in this country Wheaton College still has the right to ask their students not to engage in sodomy, and hopefully, for all of us regardless of sexual orientation, those wishing to trample on that right will not prevail. If you don't like Wheaton's philosophy, apply to U. of Miami or wherever your views are more accepted. (Not sure Jeff could have gotten into Wheaton anyway.)
Laraine
11:53 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Good answer, Ray! Yeah, why mention University of Miami? Why couldn't you have just said "another university?" Don't make it personal and passive aggressive. This is a just an open forum (freedom of speech) discussing an opinion piece.
Laraine
11:17 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Adam, I do not hang with these people. I completely, 100% agree with Jesus' message of love. What I take issue with is when someone says "I love you BUT [I don't love the sin....]. Why the 'but?' I am not saying I am right, I am just voicing my opinion. The use of the word 'but' diminishes the meaning of the statement. Let's be honest, whenever you talk about something and a person says 'but,' you stop and wait for the rest, and not in a good way. {ie. I made it home from work, BUT I crashed the car.] I realize this whole discussion is an uphill battle, especially in today's world, but I know what I teach my children and hope that everyone I have an influence over can lead by example. Ignorance and prejudice always begins in the home and that is where it must be stopped. My 5-year old will NEVER hear any derrogatory statements made about others coming from this house. My 18 year old never did either and is repulsed when certain comments are made in school, as it should be. If the parents could put an end to the comments in the home, that would be a start. Sorry, Adam, I could go on and on and this article hit a nerve. Have a good day.
William Vollrath
11:56 am on Friday, August 19, 2011
Well I do agree that labels seldom further a conversation in a positive direction, but if the suit fits, sometimes you end up wearing it. Yes, I have developed some strong negative opinons toward Jeff personally based on his opinions, but I assume he could care less since he enthusiastically engages in highly controversial public opinion journalism.
cuban pete
12:31 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
"Sure I'm having some fun with Christians....."
Do a column having "some fun" with Muslims.
That will be a real knee slapper.
Darren McRoy
1:28 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
A GBLT and religion column... We may break the "fire pits" comments record with this one.
Jeff Ward
1:47 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Darren,
I don't know! The fire pit column is getting awfully close to 200. If you had told me it would garner that many responses before I wrote it I would've told your wife to lock up the liquor cabinet!
Jeff
robert poznanski
1:43 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
The deeper problem, if one studies historical events, is the killing and wars, all in the name of religion! The Bible, Koran, etc. are, when all is said and done, a cultures revelations, regarding "God", or his "word, and as such, it is always the fanatical, literal interpretation's, of said books, that get the human race, into trouble! As Jesus said, "Treat your brother, as you would want to be treated"! Bottom line!! We would be so much further along in our spiritual evolution,if this was the case!!!
Laraine
2:16 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Thank you, Robert. You validated what I was trying to get at......all of these violent and hurtful acts done "in the name of God."
Justin Eggar
1:04 pm on Monday, August 22, 2011
I do not generally slum it in a Jeff article if it can be helped... but whenever I see this it always make me twitch. Let's get real here, okay? Have there been religious wars? Yes. Have there been even more wars that weren't about religion? Yes.
The largest wars of this century weren't religious. Heck, look back over all time. Outside of the crusades, you aren't going to see a whole lot of war purely for the sake of religion in Christianity. You might see people brandish it in an effort to bolster their cause when they are already going to war... but it wasn't the religion itself that caused it.
If you are attempting to hold up Athiesm or its like (which is generally the case when somebody rails against religion) as the end goal... think a bit about that. Athiests cause death and destruction just as much as any other. The primary difference being that Christianity at least speaks against it. However, in Athiesm the only moral compass can be one which you have derived yourself. We've seen how successful that is.
I'd be happy to discuss how Athiesm and morality exist over coffee, but you likely won't appreciate what that actually looks like. In the mean time, let's all be nice and stop using war, death and "bad stuff" in our complaints about Christianity.
Jeff Ward
1:22 pm on Monday, August 22, 2011
Justin,
The thought of atheism never entered my mind in regards to this column. And I didn't use "death" or "bad stuff" in reference to Christians.
Again, the Christian ideal may be a difficult one to live up to, but that's not an excuse. And if you're not following all biblical truths, then we have problem!
Jeff
Justin Eggar
1:36 pm on Monday, August 22, 2011
Jeff, that comment wasn't intended for you (except for the customary 1st sentence where I try and get you worked up a bit...). It was a reply to Robert and Laraine's posting.
Looks like you're going to break 200 easy on this one.
Laraine
4:29 pm on Monday, August 22, 2011
Justin, you should definitely "slum" it more often. Chances are you will find some pleasant, intelligent people here. There are wars going on right now in the name of religion. It might not be over Christianity, but there are other religions in the world other than yours. I don't want to get into a big history discussion. I do want to address the fact that I am NOT an atheist, and if you read any of my other posts, you would have noticed. My argument stems from the "organized" part of the religion and each "groups" interpretation of God's word, translated over thousands of years and through many, many people. Remember that game "Telephone?" That's what I think happens with the words that are interpreted. I was born and raised in a particular religion, but when I realized that I was practicing this religion 'cafeteria style' (picking and chosing which rules to follow), I decided it just wasn't for me. I still believe in God and pray to him regularly. What I don't adhere to is when the religion tells me such and such is wrong, immoral, against the religion itself, and I truly and wholeheartedly believe the opposite. Not just for convenience sake, but for the sake of others. That being said, I don't think anyone else should feel the way I do. It is an individual choice. When a religious group feels that their rules are the right rules for everyone, that's when I throw down the gauntlet. You can believe what you want, and I will believe what I want. No worries.
Justin Eggar
9:37 pm on Monday, August 22, 2011
Laraine - I appreciate that. I only poke my head in occasionally though... there is enough controversy without my $.02 added to the pot (and we can all agree that 99.9% of the time internet discussions are not capable of inducing a change of heart).
I don't know if I go with that "I have to follow my heart" stuff. I've heard it from all sorts of people that they want to use their feelings as a moral compass. It doesn't actually work that way though, because while your inner compass is nice and loving I'm sure, there are others whose inner compass tells them to steal, rape and murder. If our feelings are the deciding factor in right and wrong, there isn't anything at all wrong with those things (because it is what their heart told them they should do, look out for # 1).
If one doesn't believe a porton of a religion, then you probably can't really abide by any of it (if you find a lie in it, it brings the whole thing into question). That said, it isn't always as easy as that... as religions tend to have portion that are time and culture sensitive.
In the mean time, I think we can all agree - we should treat others with love and respect. The only people less successful at changing minds than internet theologians/philosophers are picketers with rediculous signs :)
William Vollrath
2:10 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
William R., I doubt you have a clue as to the nature of my "political agenda," especially since I don't think I generally have one. I pretty much hold the morality police at both ends of the political spectrum in equal disdain. People can believe whatever they want, but please be very hesitant to force your constructs for a "better civilization" on my life!!
Laraine, Excuse me, but isn't it a double standard to support Jeff's over-the-top attack on Wheaton College's sexual climate but then criticize me for bringing up U. of Miami's? Then again, hypocrisy is, unfortunately, pretty standard behavior for the morality police...
Laraine
3:37 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
William, first of all, I don't think Jeff's opinion page was an attack or over the top. He simply stated his opinion on the Review's finding (however loose that might be) and I happen to agree with him. You see, believe it or not, the western suburbs of Chicago do contain some democrats and it nice for "us" to see some views in print that are not 'right'-sided. In fact, at times, it is a shock. "Over-the-top attack" is a complete exaggeration. You mentioned earlier that you took issue with his previous columns and I see that you are still taking issue. Fact of the matter is you don't agree with his viewpoints and possible political and/or religious affiliation and you are taking all previous interactions into account when writing this one. Second, the reason I took issue with your use of the University of Miami as an example was because your response seemed to be slightly sarcastic and passive aggressive and the undertones made me think that you were implying that University of Miami standard's were less than that of Wheaton College, as far as the admission or welcoming of LCBTQ students. Why Miami? Why not just say "another university" and keep the response more even keeled? I am not a hypocrite and do not consider myself a member of the 'morality police.' But, there you go, getting snippy again. My support of Jeff's writing is no different than your support of Wheaton College regulations or the Bible. We both like what we read and are stating that we do.
cuban pete
3:57 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Laraine,
You're kidding! The western suburbs of Chicago(Cook County) has "some" Democrats.
I've lived in Cook County all my life and it has always been a hard core Republican strong hold.I'm relieved that the low profile Democrats are getting at a little recognition and quiet voices are now being heard.Whew!
Debra Dunkle
2:44 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
"I usually just hide in the crawl space". I'm loving your humor and your stirring up of the ole' hornets nest. Some folks just like getting bit.
BobS
3:10 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Jeff,
Your logic in your opinion article and comment section is rather suspect. You are ostensibly taking Wheaton College to task for their interpretation of the bible and then arguing later that, essentially, the bible can be interpreted any way you want.
Your real complaint seems to be that you just don't like their interpretation.
But beyond that, you've made assumptions about the biblical basis of Wheaton College's interpretation by equating them to some amalgamation of what you assume fundamentalist Christians must believe. Perhaps you ought first to try and find out just what Wheaton College's interpretation is, before shooting down the straw men you've set up. But I imagine that would take a bit more effort than you are presumably inclined to make.
At the very least you could take a gander at Wheaton College's online honor code and accompanying websites. Based on what you've written here, you might be surprised at what you read about their (in your words) "stilted agenda". You'll also find that, contrary to your statement that the College is " not taking a stand against ALL sinful acts and that makes them hypocrites!" to be a bit in error, as well.
Roger
9:39 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
I agree with Bob S: "Your logic in your opinion article and comment section is rather suspect. You are ....taking Wheaton College to task for their interpretation of the bible and then arguing that...the bible can be interpreted any way you want." The Bible is probably the most analyzed document in the history of the world and its many 'inconsistencies' are well documented. Many Christians have come down on one side or the other of them as a matter of Faith. I can't quibble with their beliefs any more than I can with yours. If one believes that homosexuality is a sin, that's their right. If they choose to treat homosexuals unfairly, that's where we as a society must intervene..
William Vollrath
3:13 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
"Remember, I said name one NBA player - I didn't say there wasn't one!" Wow, a new high in backtracking on one's misinformation!
Jeff Ward
3:18 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Bob,
You're gettin' way too complicated.
In their statement in response to the Princeton Review, Wheaton College cited a "biblical truth." What I'm saying is simple. If you follow one, then you have to follow them all - and the ones I used aren't ambiguous in the least.
The Bible is excruciatingly clear on menstruating women. If you're going to follow the Bible on homosexuality, then you have to follow it there too.
The fact that one can interpret Bible stories is secondary to that main point.
Jeff
Roger
3:20 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Jeff, you're beginning to scare me. Either you're being much more clear in your use of sarcasm or (shiver) I'm getting more in tune with you!
Jeff Ward
3:31 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Roger,
I would say, if you actually are starting to think like me it may be time to see a therapist!
Jeff
The Smiths
3:59 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
The Princeton Review also named Wheaton College as one of the best overall Midwestern Universities with a # 1 rating for On Campus Food & a # 2 rating for sober students among many other top 10 rankings.
Jeff Ward
5:11 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Dear The Smiths,
Remember, I already dismissed the PR survey as completely absurd - whether it's gay friendly, food or sober students. Had Wheaton College not responded they way they did, there would've been no column.
Jeff
Mike Worrell
4:07 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Jeff, your insistence about this point betrays a gross lack of understanding on your part related to what most Christians believe about the Bible and why. You're entitled to your opinion, but rather than standing your ground at this point you might try reading a couple of books on the subject. Or just call a professor over at Wheaton and ask a few honest questions.
Jeff Ward
5:09 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Mike,
Though I always appreciate your reasonable responses, you're falling into a trap that many reasonable responders who tend to disagree with me fall into.
First, if they agree with a column, there's no problem. But when they disagree, the clarion call is, "If you really did your homework you would've talked to (fill in the blank.) Were I a reporter I might agree with you, but I'm not a reporter, I'm an opinion columnist.
Wheaton College issued a proclamation that doesn't leave them much wiggle room. I challenged them on that proclamation. I don't need to read any books or to talk to anyone to proceed based on that logic.
The only way they could unravel that logic is if they admitted their statement was in error. And we know that ain't gonna happen.
Jeff
Mike Worrell
5:38 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
I hear you. But your opinion in this column is an assertion about what is believed at Wheaton and what their statement implies. I don't simply have another opinion. I'm saying that you are demonstrably incorrect. Now, this is not a simple subject, your treatment of it notwithstanding. So it's not something that can be pointed out like a math error. It requires study. I'm not suggesting you should have done that before writing the column. I'm just saying (in my reasonable way) that you're wrong in this case, and I can't possibly explain it all to you in this venue. It requires an investment of time, but it may help you better understand people that you are taking to task publicly in your column. If that interests you. Nobody knows everything.
Raphael
4:27 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
It is their right to believe what they wish to believe. This is a free thinking country, no? If you don't like their opinion, ignore it. I for one am sick of hearing about pro or anti gay and lesbian issues.
William Vollrath
5:06 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Laraine, If you ever read the sports section or watch tv news, you would know why I specifically mention U. of Miami as an alternative for those like Jeff who find Wheaton's culture so disturbing. Secondly, I am pretty sure you are one of the few people who doesn't think this article is a highly critical atttack on Wheaton College culture/philosophy. Apparently the thousands of students hoping for the opportunity to pay over $30,000 per year to attend Wheaton College don't share that view. Finally, if you bothered to actually read what I wrote instead of just engaging in a knee jerk response to what you think I believe, you might recognize that I do not agree with most of what Wheaton College embraces, I never mentioned the Bible, and consider it to be no more or less profound than several other spiritual texts. If you really support the concept of freedom of thought and action within the laws of the land, I don't know how you can embrace Jeff's opinion piece which certainly does attack Wheaton College for practicing what it preaches. I agree with very little of what they say and do there, but Jeff's article is the opposite of liberal tolerance for freedom of thought. It is a disturbing, arrogant and unfunny piece of bad journalism.
Jeff Ward
5:12 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Laraine,
Just ignore him.
Jeff
William Vollrath
5:19 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Much easier that way...
Laraine
5:21 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
OMG! Jeff, just as I was about to enter my counterpoint to yet another "William" response, I scrolled down ever so slightly and saw your note. And now I am done. Thank you for the heads up. Have a great weekend!!! [I don't know what I will do though, since I don't watch TV news (ie. Fox News Network) and participate in sports. No clue.] Assumptions.......
Jeff Ward
5:24 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Laraine,
Glad I could help!
Jeff
Dan
6:39 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Jeff, my comment about thinking I was reading the Press was a joke. Your style of writing reminds me of the columnist there that turned this local news junkie from a subscriber who looked forward to reading the paper on Fridays to a non subscriber who rarely ever reads the Press. I don't understand the business rational of featuring writers that regularly "have fun" at the expense of a significant portion of those that read thier newspaper. Considering the large population of Christians in the Chicago area it might be nice to read a positive story or two. Who knows it might even be good business to validate some of the positive things those that read your paper are doing.
Cathy Goodman
7:00 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Just curious...has anyone's opinion about homosexuality, Jesus, or fire-pits ever been influenced by an op-ed or a discussion forum? I've never figured out how to change anyone's mind about such things. I've come to the point where I just sigh deeply, shake my head, and keep quite. Shh, be quiet Cathy...
John Locke
7:29 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Precisely, Cathy. In the words of John Mayer...
"Is there anyone who
Ever remembers changing their mind from
The paint on a sign?
Is there anyone who really recalls
Ever breaking rank at all
For something someone yelled real loud one time?"
At a certain point it's just so much tiresome noise and bluster.
Jeff Ward
7:31 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Cathy,
It's not a huge amount, but I have had more than one reader tell me I provided a perspective that led them to a change of heart. It's keeps me going!
Jeff
Jeff Ward
7:08 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Dan,
My job is to point out inconsistency. There are columnists that take the positive route and that's fine too. As in the case of Tefft Middle School, I do write positive columns every now and then, but even that one pointed out that money isn't always the measure of a good education.
Yes, I have fun with folks who take themselves too seriously. But I'm at the top of the list. Do you really think I hide in my crawl space once a month, swear at my parents or am terrified by my own bedroom? I spare no one - not even myself!
The press has a very important job to do. But too often, folks who purport to be watchdogs are just idealogues in disguise. I promise I will never fall prey to that. I also promise I will not change my style for any reader.
I love my readers - without them I wouldn't be writing - but I don't read folks like Charles Krauthammer or Cal Thomas because they add nothing to the debate. My best advice to you would be, if you think I fall into that category, then don't click on the link!
Jeff
Dan
11:05 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Jeff,
You have a lifetime of work ahead of you. Aren't we all filled with inconsistencies?
As a reader and consumer of local news my job is to provide feedback on the type and tone of stories I would like to see.
I would like to read an occasional story that portrays Christians in a positive way that more acurately represents my experiences.
Jeff Ward
7:37 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Dan,
You're dead on! First, I was excited about writing 5 columns a week, but then reality set in. As it turns out, if I had the energy, I could write 7 or 8! There's a lot that needs attention in today's world.
Given your persistence, what I think what you're really trying to say is you want to only read stories that confirm your world view. Even the mere existence of my writing somehow bothers you!
Again, I'll be the first one to say a little bit of me goes a long way. If it's not for you, and clearly it's not, then it's your absolute right to move on to the next story.
Jeff
Craig
11:22 pm on Friday, August 19, 2011
Hi Jeff, Here's what I understand. There is Civil Law, Ceremonial Law, and Moral Law. Here's is why much of Leviticus doesn't pertain to us today. We're not citizens of a Jewish State & there's no Sanhedrin Council to enforce these civil laws found in the bible. i.e. cut off lady's hand for messing with testicles. There's no temple, therefore, no reason to keep ceremonial laws concerning how to approach the temple. Your Linen Lev 19:19 jab sort of falls under this category. Linen is a special material w/ rich symbolic meaning in the O.T. Garments made w/ linen were used primarily in the worship of Yahweh. Tabernacle curtains . (Ex 26:1, Ex 27:9) The Temple Veil (2 Chron.3:14) The Priest's garments(Lev.16, 1 Sam.22:18, Eze 44:17-19) The temple singers wore linen. (2 Chron 5:12) The prophet Samuel and king David wore linen ephods on special occasions. (1 Sam.2:18, 2 Sam. 6:14) Heavenly messengers wore linen. (Eze.9:2, Daniel 10:5) The Saviour's body was wrapped in linen before being placed in the tomb. (Matt.27:59) Leviticus is about not mixing the sacred with the secular. This mandate is emphasised in civil and ceremonial laws that (yes) seem funny by today's standard i.e. mixing of garments. Then there's Moral Law. These laws remain relevant today. Homosexuality falls under a Moral Law. Why? Life is sacred. Therefore, sex is sacred; seeing only through sex does life spring forth. Homosexuality is a perversion of God's sacred gift to us, namely, monogamous heterosexual sex.
Jeff Ward
7:26 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Craig,
Your problem is, there's nothing in the New Testament - without really reaching - that expressly forbids homosexuality. So if we toss the Old Testament, then we don't even have a debate - Wheaton College is dead wrong.
I do like your explanation. In fact, I'll give 80 percent of your argument. But in decoding the differences between civil, ceremonial and moral law, what you're saying is the Bible is open to interpretation. You're no longer taking it literally. And if you no longer take one part of it literally, then you can't take any part of it literally.
I actually think you've made a really good argument that the Leviticus stance on homosexuality should never be considered in the modern day!
Jeff
Craig
10:48 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Report Card: Jeff Ward
Effort: D- (I find reason to believe you've only read bits and pieces of the bible.)
Comprehension: D- (The bits & pieces you have read you seem to not understand)
If you would like to stay after class to discuss this matter. I would be happy to meet with you.
Debbie Simler-Goff
2:23 pm on Monday, August 22, 2011
Beautifully clarified Craig. Thanks. I appreciate you explaining this in a way that's easy to understand...
Stephanie W. Trussell
12:18 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
It is a Christian school that teaches you to love the sinner but hate the sin. I love how I never read about how intolerant other religions are that stone and castrate women, they are given the thumbs up sign and we should stay out of their beliefs. If you are gay don't go to Wheaton choose a school that is not following the word of Jesus, there are plenty.
Jeff Ward
7:30 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Stephanie,
Where have you been? I get 5 newspapers a day and I read about intolerant non-christian religions all the time. Honor killings in India, Muslims torching Christian Churches in Egypt, the Taliban killing young women who dare to go to school and much more.
I'm not saying you're specifically engaging in this, but your refrain mimics that of the typical and often self-absorbed religious right, "why is everybody always picking on me." It's that dish it out, but can't take it kind of thing.
Jeff
William Vollrath
8:00 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Jeff, some day you will be wise enough to recognize that life itself is inconsistent. That constant change is part of everything. Lots of luck in fighting that! Before I hopefully leave this annoying little thread, allow me to again point out that in this country no person or organization is required to be "correct," intelligent, enlightened, senstitive or anything else other than to not break the law of the land. Wheaton College is trying to
contribute to this world as best it can, and they generally seem to do a better job at that than most universities IMHO. Just as importantly, if you reallllly understand and appreciate the concept of freedom of thought and action, you cut them some slack as they evovle like all the rest of us, rather than ridicule them as you pound the drum of political correctness.
Dan
9:17 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Jeff,
You might want to try your reasoning out on yourself. If Wheaton College isn't for you why not leave it alone and write about the benefits of the many many colleges out there that share your world view. Do you really think those that work in the press are some how above ideological bias. Again I 'm a consumer of local news. Why shouldn't I voice my interest in seeing stories that I would like to read about?
Jeff Ward
9:27 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Dan,
Of course you should voice your interest! Absolutely! But your target should then be the Patch Editors and not me!
Jeff
Roger
10:19 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
“But instead of letting this absurdity go, as they should have, Wheaton College couldn’t resist issuing a response.” Really Jeff? I have a sneaking suspicion that you would have found a way to blog about a non-response.
Jeff Ward
10:36 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Roger,
I have to say you're wrong!
Remember, I already said this survey is far from scientific. Had Wheaton College NOT responded, I probably would've defended them. As I wrote in the column, It's patently unfair to deem a college the least friendly to gays based on one bad question in an 80 question survey.
One of my mother's favorite sayings was, "consider the source."
For example, I think Michelle Bachmann is dangerous. But as Jon Stewart just noted, the Newsweek cover picture that made her look nuts was uncalled for. And Anderson Cooper rightfully said the UK photo of her eating an Iowa corndog (wink, wink) was absurd.
I'm all for letting her rise or fall of her own accord and if you've read the body of my work, you already know I don't play favorites.
Jeff
Roger
11:38 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
I'll accept that at face value Jeff and I admit that my original comment was an unfair bit of 'sniping' that I apologize for.
Jeff Ward
11:47 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Roger,
No problem! If you dish it out, you better be able to take it!
Jeff
P.
10:54 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Bottom line is if you have any hate in your heart towards any group of people including Muslims, gays, etc, then you can call yourself Christian but you're just wearing the t-shirt. You're missing the whole point of Christianity which is to do unto others as you would have done to yourself. Christianity is supposed to be about love and compassion. Get a clue.
Julia C
11:09 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Exactly. Thank you for being one of the few people on this board that seems to get it.
Jeff Ward
11:50 am on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Joe,
Without hesitation! But it has to be local. The Patch's mantra is local, local, local. And Wheaton College is about as local as it gets. Should a Muslim based incident within the Patch purview spark my interest - good or bad - you can rest assured I'll take it up.
Jeff
Mary
1:32 pm on Saturday, August 20, 2011
To put it the most simply sex outside of Marriage is a Mortal sin, thus the "death" part. Since Marriage is between one man and one woman, created in Gods image and likeness, there is no true Marriage between same sex attracted people. It states very clearly throughout the whole Bible, that "Fornicators" will not enter Heaven, unless of course they repent. But as Jesus says "The Kingdom of Heaven is at Hand", so don't wait too much longer to repent. We love the sinner, hate the son.
Roger
1:43 pm on Saturday, August 20, 2011
oops Mary Sue; you might want to delete your post and repost with a correction to your last word....
John Schofield
1:44 pm on Saturday, August 20, 2011
One hopes you "love the son".
Jeff Ward
2:28 pm on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Mary,
Again, if you're going to quote Leviticus on homosexuality then you have to follow all of it. The New Testament does not expressly forbid homosexuality or same sex marriage. And the only reason they're "fornicators" is because we won't let them get married.
It's a wonderful Catch-22. I love your circular logic, but unless you refuse to eat pork or shellfish, you're in trouble!
Jeff
Laraine
4:00 pm on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Yikes!! Big Freudian slip there, Mary Sue. ; )
One question: How do you feel about a civil union not taking place in a church? Are you still against that when no religion is involved? Me thinks you probably are even if religion is taken out of the equation.
John Locke
5:17 pm on Saturday, August 20, 2011
You know, Jeff a pretty wise fellow named Ralph Emerson once said, "A foolish consistency is the hobgoblin of little minds, adored by little statesmen and philosophers and divines. With consistency a great soul has simply nothing to do. He may as well concern himself with his shadow on the wall."
We have the freedom and ability to think for ourselves. If we are to operate from a ready-made set of instructions, we'd be pretty boring people, indeed. If a Buddhist wants to practice meditation but forgo an ascetic lifestyle, I don't think it renders his entire philosophy invalid. Same for the person who person who observes Ramadan but doesn't pray to Mecca in the office 3 times a day. We're people, not machines and we're free to pick and choose our philosophy. Of course, you're free to cast stones in your column, too.
Jeff Ward
6:42 pm on Saturday, August 20, 2011
John,
Please note the word "foolish." Again, Wheaton College, of their own volition, said they follow biblical truth. But I don't think they do!
Jeff
John Locke
11:39 pm on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Jeff, you seem to have a propensity for focusing on the insignificant.
Jeff Ward
7:57 am on Sunday, August 21, 2011
John,
If that ain't a case of the pot calling the kettle black, then I don't know what is.
I still love you!
Jeff
Noel G. Rooks
5:33 pm on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Jeff - I tend to agree with you that it seemd inconsistent that Wheaton would take a stand on this but not other "Biblical" issues. That said, Wheaton is a private institution, and as long as they don't run afoul of the law, we really have no say in what they teach, yes? But yeah, I agree with you, it does seem inconsistent which biblical laws we choose to follow. As you may have noticed, it's not necesarily a popular position to take. :-D My point, and maybe a little of yours:
"If this is going to be a Christian nation that doesn't help the poor, either we've got to pretend that Jesus was just as selfish as we are, or we've got to acknowledge that he commanded us to love the poor and serve the needy without condition and then admit that we just don't want to do it." ~ Stephen Colbert
And now I will go back to hiding under my rock.
Jeff Ward
6:02 pm on Saturday, August 20, 2011
Noel,
In that single paragraph, you said it better than I did in the entire column. You win the best response award on this one and the competition has been very tough!
Jeff
William Vollrath
8:08 am on Sunday, August 21, 2011
Sorry, I need to make another observation on the core absurdity of this thread. In the final analysis it is just about what Wheaton College thinks the Bible says on sexuality vs. what reporter want-to-be Jeff Ward thinks. Does the Bible say sex is sin if it involves anything other than a loving, married, consenting man and woman doing it in the missionary position? What about oral sex? Anal sex? Sex with battery operated toys? Rough S&M sex? "Experimental" oral sex between two college coeds? An all-out orgie? The all-out-orgie with batteries and animals? I think I now better realize none of us should much care what limited guidance Wheaton College, Jeff Ward or even the Bible offers us on sexual behavior...
Karen Chadra
1:01 pm on Sunday, August 21, 2011
Comment deleted JH. Disparaging to WV
Joe Bechtold
12:54 pm on Sunday, August 21, 2011
Directing this back to Jeff's stated main issues of biblical truth and applying an ALL or nothing standard to it, I have some further observations: (Page one of two)
• You’ve taken this non-event to an extreme position and made a Seinfeld show about nothing.
• When looking at Wheaton College as a local DuPage County for profit business (what it basically is) and using your own ALL or nothing rational that you are applying to Wheaton College, to be fair you must also apply those same ALL or nothing standards to ALL other for profit businesses in DuPage County.
• In your context applied specifically to this situation, the ALL or nothing standard relates to how a local for profit business chooses to write and apply their standard rules or code of conduct.
• Your words specifically say that once Wheaton College invokes a biblical truth as one of their standard rules or code of conduct, they must then invoke ALL biblical truths – otherwise they are inconsistent and hypocrites.
• With all due respect, would this in turn mean that you are inconsistent or a hypocrite to apply this condition to Wheaton College only and not to ALL other DuPage County for profit businesses?
• You may reply that Wheaton College uses biblical truth for their standard rules or code of conduct and other DuPage County business do not use biblical truth as theirs…or do they?
(See Page Two)
Joe Bechtold
12:56 pm on Sunday, August 21, 2011
Page 2
• Looking at College of DuPage Values: Integrity. We expect the highest standard of moral character and ethical behavior. (Where is moral character defined?...perhaps in the Bible?)
• Honesty. We expect truthfulness and trustworthiness. (Honesty – another biblical truth)
• Using your prescribed ALL or nothing words, College of DuPage must then use ALL biblical truths and not just one. I’m fairly certain that ALL businesses in DuPage County have included Honesty in their standard rules or code of conduct.
• This can be reduced down to you saying that every single for profit business in DuPage County is inconsistent and hypocritical if they include Honesty (a biblical truth) in their standard rules or code of conduct but don’t include ALL biblical truths. By your own fairness rules, you can’t call it on one without calling it on the other.
• There is nothing at all wrong with having established standard rules or code of conduct in place in a place of business (no matter what type of business it is) that applies equally to everyone across the board.
• It doesn’t matter what those rules are based upon or how they are derived provided they fall within the laws of the land.
• I think it’s fair to say that ALL companies are free to pick and choose their own legal standard rules and codes of conduct from any source they choose and not be subject to an ALL or nothing standard called for by a sideline umpire.
Jeff Ward
1:34 pm on Sunday, August 21, 2011
Joe,
I don't.
Jeff
William Vollrath
1:41 pm on Sunday, August 21, 2011
Dear Jeff and Wheaton College,
Please help me, I am really confused. Give me the easy answers to the questions I posted above and be sure to explain how you know they are correct. Also, I forgot to ask, is masturbation good or bad and is it sex with or without birth control I should avoid? Finally, should I love and respect everyone, no matter what their sexual practices are, and do I have to room with them in college? I know you have answers for all this. I'm just so confused now. Your BFF, Billy
Jeffrey Crane
5:44 pm on Monday, August 22, 2011
Ask President Clinton. I think he has all those answers.
For more of the same go to: www.dggab.com (Downers Grove Gab)
Roger
4:24 pm on Monday, August 22, 2011
Unlike other religions which share the history of the OT, Christianity's goal was to replace the legalism of the OT to the freedom and power of a loving heart in the NT. As has been pointed out elsewhere, the Bible could not possibly address every conceivable issue that challenges us. Where there are some clues, modern Christians continue to look for guidance and have always been inconsistent by your standards. Regardless, these are examples of laws that were meant to be replaced by a higher law.
In my opinion, today's vocal, hardline Christians do their faith great harm by reverting to a legalistic biblical endorsement of their political agenda in a frustrated attempt to reclaim lost values in the areas of marriage, sex, family and money. (Well, not so much money.) While I may be sympathetic to some of their causes, I strongly disagree with their linking of religion with politics or to personal agendas. Religion should remain an intimately personal experience evidenced not by proclamation but by loving behavior.
More to the point of your article, Jeff, the college's statement and, as best as I can see their teachings and behavior, don't indicate an assertive anti-gay attitude. I agree with others that you've chosen a rather friendly dog to kick around.
brian
6:26 pm on Thursday, August 25, 2011
Jeff, the most problematic part of your article is the assumption that "biblical truth" means a particular verse. I haven't read the statement you're referring to, but I can be pretty sure Leviticus was not referenced. I've taught at Wheaton for 10 years, and I can tell you that I have not met any faculty, staff or administrator who does "not want to associate with" or shuns gay people. The Christian church has had a pretty strict sexual ethic for centuries: no sex with anyone to whom you are not married. Marriage has always been defined heterosexually based primarily on the doctrine of creation, not particular verses in the Law. There are gay students at Wheaton, but they must adhere to the same sexual code of conduct the rest of us ascribe to. Of course people disagree with this reading of scripture, but it is not so simple minded as just picking a verse. You say you don't need to speak with anyone at Wheaton to know what we think because we refer to "biblical truth." I really think you don't understand the teaching of Wheaton College (and an enormous portion of the Christian Church world wide) if you assume that this is about ignoring passages of scripture and affirming others.
William Vollrath
7:15 pm on Thursday, August 25, 2011
Thank you for correcting the latest misrepresentation by Mr.Ward. It really is amazing he is still allowed to write for Patch!!
Ray Smith
3:03 pm on Friday, August 26, 2011
As to why Wheaton College issued a response to the Princeton Survey, the media world-wide singled out that one of 80 survey questions and--as the Chicago Tribune-- headlined it to convey a distorted picture of the school. The President owed it to his alumni and constituency to state the school's position. As a former staff member and Wheaton resident for 61 years, be assured Wheaton College is not "unfriendly" toward any students, including gays who have chosen to attend knowing its theologically-based position and published standards of conduct. In fact, when the homosexual Soul Force Caravan descended uninvited on campus three Aprils ago--hoping, as one gay youth said, to be forceably prevented from entering to attract even more media attention-- the Administration feted them, allowed them access to students, held several public forms where Soul Force spokespersons presented their arguments to the entire student body...all while fully aware this group's declared intention was, and is, to pressure change in the school's Statement of Faith. The leader of the group came to a senior WH administrator a year ahead and told him flatly: "We're going to get you, and we won't stop until we do!" As for being #1 unfriendly, that's suspect too.
Of the over 25 U.S. evangelical colleges and universities, all but three were left out of the survey universe so, regretfully, we question also Wheaton #2 in sobriety but will fight to keep #1 for food because it IS fantastic.
ehbuttocks
5:05 pm on Friday, September 2, 2011
Why is Princeton producing a list of good and bad schools for gay people? Did they only use the student fees of gay students to do it with, or is Princeton an all-gay school anyway? What was the point of this in the first place?
John Schofield
6:18 pm on Friday, September 2, 2011
The Princeton Review is a private training company, not the university Get off your buttocks and look it up.
David
2:19 pm on Friday, September 9, 2011
Interesting article - nicely written and funny too. Even more interesting is the hornet's nest it stirred up.
Can I suggest for your next article - "Which religion is right, and why all the others are wrong".
currentwheatonstudent
6:03 pm on Friday, April 13, 2012
The New Testament does condemn homosexuality....Romans 1.
MILTON PD
6:55 pm on Friday, April 13, 2012
If a straight person gets involved with a gay person - that is a sin (wrong).
If both people are gay then I see no reason to be against it.
Don't tread on gay Americans......and yes Obama is a joke.